right now am thinking about change.

when do things change. does anything change.

the thing is as a child, life is pretty straghit foward. you eat play

and sleep, and now agian, you get in trouble for not doing what your

suppoosed to, and u know where ur limits are. then u reach adolescant

and u see girls/boys in a new perspective, u see the world in a whole

new angle and u see ur friends in a whole new light,thats ok.

but from there to adulthood is blurry. when do u become an adult, when

do u have friends for life. when do u decide to do something wid ur

life so u don't end up hating ur life and have a mid life crisis. when

do u start thinking about mid life crisis. when do u reach ur full

potential. change takes alot of forms. someone might not like

themselves so they change their appreances. someone might get their

heart broken so they promise it will never happen again. some might

have hopes and achievements to reach, some might just idolize someone

so much they take on them.

what am trying to say is, when does someone change, and does change

always work out for the better and if so how does it. does a criminal

decide to stop being a criminal in order to better themselves or for

society, and do we all need to change in the twenty first century for

the better because the state humanity is in right now can actually do

with a little of humanity itself. a lilttle understanding, and some

compassion for our fellow human beings might just make us better

hummans, but how do we do that. do we do that as indiviuals or as a

whole. and this is for the guys (and myself included). we need to look

after our women. understand our women. show compassion to our women.

teach our women, show our women generosity, we need to love our women.

the reason why, becoz their our mothers, dauthers, sisters, aunties,

nieces,grandmothers, best friends, and last but not least their our

wifes