How do we live in today’s world where the media and the news

So what are we really afraid of………

how i see it

The thing is life is great, but if u choose to see flaws in it u can,

which right now does what am doing. I chose to do see like that now

because it’s interesting the way I see life. It’s fascinating to watch

and hear people say this man is god. It’s interesting to see our young

kids idolising celebrities. Shouting and screaming with them as we take

them to see a pop concert, and we shout and scream when they kill each

other, yet no one wants to take the blame when everything turns sour.

When they get into trouble, we want to kill them, when they do something

good, we praise them. No middle area, no gray area just straight black

and white. And from a age we are told and taught that violence is

bad, yet we are read stories like little red riding hood who gets eaten

by a wolf and a hunter kills the wolf to save red riding hood and her

grandma. That is a lot of killing. We have women who love the word

indepeandant but do not understand the sacrifice that entails. We had

the feminist’s movement and then we had single parents who I applaud for

the way they handle such a difficult and unbearable situation, that most

men could never fully understand.

Men, where should I start?

We men are such hostile beings that sometimes i think we shouldn't

exist. We destroy each other and not only that, we destroy our young

children. Where did we go wrong as men? When did our femininity take

over our man hood? With each year passing, we men our becoming more

feminine, and that is a true fact. Men toiletries are selling more and

more and now they are even more complex than just toiletries. Men are

having more facials, cosmetic surgeries etc...

As a culture, the British culture is dying slowly. As we getting

more 'modern', were losing what was brutishness, look at the fact that

the Britannia sign on the 50 pence coin is being removed.

What was religion is now being targeted. Am gonna keep this simple and

short. How is anyone (and this is not being deaf or dumb or ignorant,

just think about it) going to insult what you believe. What you believe

is yours and yours only. No one can take it away, break it, and

humiliate it, that’s just not possible.

Materialism is a disease. Wanting the finer things in life, which you

don't need. Like a silk shirt, or a Ferrari, or a 5 bedroom house when

you’re not even planning on having kids its just stupid. The essentials,

that’s all we ever needed. entertainment, where people are spending

£1000s on a concert ticket, paying to watch 500 channels when u watch 10

or at worse u don't even have time to watch it.

the rich is getting richer and the poor are getting poorer, and if our

kids are not playing and talking on the net, playing computer games,

getting murdered, killing themselves or getting run over yet there

aren't anyone willing to do anything about the screams for help, where

we are more interested in what happen to Brittany spears then honestly

what future do our children have. and forget about climate change and

this going green, that isn’t gonna happen if there aren’t no future now

is it..

right now am thinking about change.

when do things change. does anything change.

the thing is as a child, life is pretty straghit foward. you eat play

and sleep, and now agian, you get in trouble for not doing what your

suppoosed to, and u know where ur limits are. then u reach adolescant

and u see girls/boys in a new perspective, u see the world in a whole

new angle and u see ur friends in a whole new light,thats ok.

but from there to adulthood is blurry. when do u become an adult, when

do u have friends for life. when do u decide to do something wid ur

life so u don't end up hating ur life and have a mid life crisis. when

do u start thinking about mid life crisis. when do u reach ur full

potential. change takes alot of forms. someone might not like

themselves so they change their appreances. someone might get their

heart broken so they promise it will never happen again. some might

have hopes and achievements to reach, some might just idolize someone

so much they take on them.

what am trying to say is, when does someone change, and does change

always work out for the better and if so how does it. does a criminal

decide to stop being a criminal in order to better themselves or for

society, and do we all need to change in the twenty first century for

the better because the state humanity is in right now can actually do

with a little of humanity itself. a lilttle understanding, and some

compassion for our fellow human beings might just make us better

hummans, but how do we do that. do we do that as indiviuals or as a

whole. and this is for the guys (and myself included). we need to look

after our women. understand our women. show compassion to our women.

teach our women, show our women generosity, we need to love our women.

the reason why, becoz their our mothers, dauthers, sisters, aunties,

nieces,grandmothers, best friends, and last but not least their our

wifes

to girls that i have ever dated, to girls that am supposed to be a good

friend to, i apologize for the way i acted towards you. the way i

treated you. you were all very nice girls, lovely to be with and cared

so much for me, i apologize. for the way those realtionships ended i

apologize. you didn't deserve it, but wat was i meant to do, either way

it would of had the same outcome. i couldn't of been more of a man and

told you, but i couldn't do it to ur face, becoz it would of been as

just as hurtful, thats wat i was thinlking, i didn't want to hurt u more

than i already have, and for that i apologize. we could of stayed as

friends but truly who does that work for, i only ever see it work in

hollywood.i can't of stayed friends becoz it would bring back memeories,

yes it would bring back good memories but it would also bring back bad

ones. i swear i just wanted to do the best by you, it was the way i went

and did that which was stupid. and for that i apologize. how i can i try

and make something work knowing deep down i want to finish it. you was

so good to me always wanting to know wat i was upto, how i was, you

showed me that u loved me, but i tried to recipitate that but i just

couldn't and for that i apologize. i should of not ignored you, and on

that point i do apologize becoz i was selfish about that, thats becoz it

hurt everytime i heard ur voice or see you, but wat i didn't know its

that it hurt you when i ignored you and for that i apologize. i know it

was wrong but thats the way i deal with things. Please forgive me

I AM SORRY

thursday 10th january 08

hey people i want to write something but i feel so down. i don't why i

feel down coz the the whole day i had energy. i feel like wats the point

of even trying to write something. i am just thinking of loads of

negatives, and thats like pouring gas on to flames, its just making

everything worse. its like someone told me very bad news. people my next

blog might just upset some people, but hey thats life innit...

hey people how can i change the age on my blog

my lost love

i don't know if i should give up looking for my soul mate. you see am a

might be a lost cause and might not even be out there.

what should i do people..

hero by the way.

MY LIFE

I told myself I would stop myself from doing all things I don't like doing. I tell myself I am going to have a better self control. I tell myself am going to be myself and am not going to give a damn about what people think. I ell myself am going to be a better human being, a better son, a better brother, a better friend, a better cousin, a better uncle you get my drift.
Yet I can't manage to be any of those. I know I have serious problems I acknowledge them but I can't stop being what I despise. I can't stop doing all the things I hate doing. Am not proud doing what I do? There disgusting repugnant things yet I manage till even now to still being dong those things I hate.
Its like am slowly destroying myself and I know it but I can't stop it. I tried going cold turkey and it didn't work. I’ve tried slowly withdrawing it out my system but that doesn't work.
I want to be a better person and I know how to be a better person and I’ve asked Allah to help on many occasions but how is Allah going to help me if I can't help myself. What good am I as a human being when I don't have any self control?
There are so many things I want to do. There are so many things I have to do, but what am I to do when I can't save my own life.

Hey this my first blog people so bear with me and a happy new year to all of you.

Please if your don't agree with my blog then tell me why and I will get back to you.
If you liked my blog I will post the second part later on during the week. Thank you